Couples budgeting · Option 4
Split the bills and settle up
No joint account at all. Each of you pays some of the shared bills, and you pay each other back for the other half.
How it works
Divide up who pays what. Alex pays the mortgage and the utilities, and Sam pays for groceries and the internet. Each shared bill is split 50/50 (or by income), so whoever pays it is owed the other half. Once a month, or whenever suits you, you pay each other back with your bank or a payment app.
In Dollero, the money your partner owes you goes in a Reimbursement category. It keeps a running total of what you're owed and doesn't come out of your Available to budget, because you're getting it back. When your partner pays you, that transfer goes into the same category and it's back to $0.
Is it right for you?
It suits couples who keep their finances separate and want shared costs split fairly, without opening a joint account. It works well when you each pay different bills, and because Dollero keeps track of who owes what, settling up takes one transfer.
If you'd rather plan your shared spending as a team, We recommend Option 1.
Putting it together: Alex and Sam in Dollero
Alex and Sam each keep a personal budget with their own chequing account. Here's how they split the bills and settle up in Dollero.
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Create a personal budget for each of you
Each partner creates a Personal budget with their own chequing account. Invite your partner from Household Members in the app menu, so you can send transfers between your budgets. Turn on Mask this budget if you'd rather your partner didn't see the details.

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Add a category for what your partner owes you
On the budget screen, choose Add Reimbursement Category. Alex adds Owed by Sam, and Sam adds Owed by Alex. Each of you also budgets a Shared Bills category for what you'll owe the other.

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Split each shared bill as you pay it
When Alex pays the $104.36 Hydro One bill, Alex adds it with Split Transaction: $52.18 to Utilities, Alex's half, and $52.18 to Owed by Sam. Sam does the same for groceries, with half going to Owed by Alex.

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See what you're owed
Owed by Sam keeps a running total in its own Reimbursements group. So far this month, Sam owes Alex $1,095.38 for half of the mortgage, gas and hydro bills. Alex's own halves come out of Mortgage and Utilities as usual.

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Settle up with one transfer
At the end of the month, Sam sends Alex $1,095.38 with their bank or a payment app, and records it with Add Transfer: from Sam's Chequing to Alex's Budget: Alex's Chequing, taking it from Shared Bills and sending it to Owed by Sam. One transfer updates both budgets.

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See it cleared
In Alex's account, Sam's payment shows up as Transfer from Sam's Budget, and Owed by Sam is back to $0. Alex pays Sam the $341.97 owed for groceries and internet the same way, from Alex's Shared Bills to Owed by Alex.

Getting started this month
- Decide who pays which shared bills, and whether to split them 50/50 or by income.
- In Dollero, each create a personal budget with your own account, and invite your partner.
- Each add a Reimbursement category for what your partner owes you, and a Shared Bills category for what you owe them.
- Split each shared bill as you record it.
- Pick a settle-up day, such as the end of the month, and pay each other back.
Your first month or two will show you what each of you really pays. Adjust who pays which bills until the settle-up amounts feel manageable.
The other options
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Option 1 Recommended
Joint, with money of your own
Both paycheques go into a joint account. You plan shared spending together, and each of you gets an equal personal amount to spend however you like.
- Paycheques go to
- The joint account
- Shared bills paid from
- The joint account
- Personal money
- An equal amount each, moved to your own budget
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Option 2
Fully joint
Everything goes into one pot. Bills, savings and spending all come from the joint account, and you agree on big purchases together.
- Paycheques go to
- The joint account
- Shared bills paid from
- The joint account
- Personal money
- Planned together in the shared budget
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Option 3
Proportional contributions
Each of you pays your share of the shared bills into a joint account, by share of income (say 60/40) or 50/50, and keeps the rest.
- Paycheques go to
- Your own account
- Shared bills paid from
- The joint account, funded by both of you
- Personal money
- Whatever is left after your share